relationships

How To Really Talk To Your Partner About Important Stuff

There are several things that everyone wants in their relationship.  They want to be heard, understood and validated.  They want their partner to know what’s going on for them and “get it”. Many couples that come to my couples counselling sessions in Wilmslow just don’t feel heard by each other.  They are both screaming “SEE ME”…

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Who’s Breaking Bad Mike In Your Relationship?

Have you ever stood back from your relationship and looked for patterns?  Try it now.  Notice if you spot any familiar positions you and your partner take. One position that may not be immediately obvious is the one around disappointment. Chances are that one of you is Breaking Bad’s Mike Ehrmantraut pretty much all the…

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Couples Counselling Most Frequently Asked Questions

I am a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and in Advanced Clinical Training in Imago Relationship Therapy.  What this means in simple language is that I have spent hundreds of hours studying couples therapy and working with couples. When couples come to me for couples counselling in Wilmslow they tend to want to know the answers…

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7 Ways To Make Your Marriage Work Better

Think about the most important things you do in life.  In most of them such and work, hobbies, driving, and academic activities you have years of training. Yet two of the most important activities you engage in, having a long term relationship and raising children, there is no training. Thankfully there are experts out there…

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